Ok awesomeness..not. so I get a text from my boy telling me that his sister told him my mom was telling everyone that he is going to propose..
now my mother says she never even saw his sister last night, but because she's being backed up by her boyfriend they are more credible...
and now he's angry and i'm crying and I just don't know what to think, say, or do..

everyone is so angry..

We have known his family for years, so close to said family I call the husband Uncle Ray...how ever I do not, I repeat DO NOT want him to literally be my Uncle Ray. This man is my Uncle Ray's brother.
This guy is so hobo/hillbilly/trailer park I can't stand it.
(note: I have nothing against people who live in trailor parks, I have mainly my whole life. It's the people who live like it, the hard core redneck trashy people that give them a bad name)
I have never liked this man, he was always the brother of the family that was around but no one really talked to him...and now she's seeing him.
She says she's happier then she's been in ages...then why is she acting so ridiculous? I mean they have not even been together a week and she's telling me to get used to him because he's already talking long term?!? fuck that.
The man just went threw a messy divorce, lost his kids to his ex (who i also might add cut his long hair while he was asleep[which he hasn't gotten properly cut...it's been months] oh and he also had his teeth knocked out in a fight out side of WALMART!!!). he also lost his house to her and is living with his parents.
Now I realise he has been threw a lot of shit with that divorce...but seriously, eww.

and to top it off mom won't listen to me about how ridculous she's being because ' i hate everyones boyfriend but my own'
which is partially true with good reason.
my little sisters boyfriend is 18 and is terrified of his mother so is dating behind her back... he also has no spine and lies to my sister.. a lot. and blows things out of proportion so ridiculously i want to smack him. and his sister is a bitch only a little worse than the mother.

my middle sisters boyfriend is 2 years younger than her (which makes in 16) and has just recently moved to tenneessee. this boy has a jealousy problem (I swear to god he god mad because we were hanging out with a cousin of the male gender at our family reunion) and is addicted to his xbox360. i mean addicted. like really. his family is also crazy. but much less so than youngest sisters boyfriend.
he's starting to grow on me again...but i still don't like him.

moms boyfriend I have mentioned. needs a haircut, has virtually no teeth, lives with his parents, just a creepy guy in general.

and to top it off mom has been going out to eat with him everyday, using my truck (the only vehicle because she doesn't know how to save up money to get her fucking own) and MY GAS! then yelling at me for her having to put more in after i go to work...now my work is 5 miles round trip...she drove to the beach with him...that 40 round trip...big difference.
and not only is she going out to eat and leaving my sister and i at home, she has not yet bought groceries. instead she went to the fair and meals and tells me that she doesn't need to go shopping because there is plently of food in the house...yes frozen chicken,frozen beef and pasta... so basically everything you'd need to make dinner, only no milk. nothing for lunch or breakfast or snack.

I can't begin to relate how ridiculous my mother is. and it's only getting worse.
I'm having lunch with my dad tomorrow to see if I can get him to move to a 2 room apartment.
and I'm serious this time...and I'm taking my truck with me..


p.s. things with the boyfriend are amazing and only getting better. the only thing he asks is that i don't talk about my mom with him because he knows how ridiculous she is and really dislikes her. we've been together almost 10 months :) and his mom likes me now :D

I love him more than anything else..we've been together almost 5 months now.

He's currently sleeping right beside me, it's the most amazing sight...
only one problem...

his parents have put him on probation..like grounded him...HE'S 21 YEARS OLD!!!
He quit his job yesterday because they were wrongly accusing him of illegal things
so now they think he should not be able to do fun things when he could be looking for a job instead..
we havnt seen each other in almost a week...

I hate being away from him that long. He was supposed to sleep over tonight...but now he has to leave in less than an hour because they let him leave but gave him a time to be home...
and they just keep doing this, his mom mainly, interfering and trying to boss him around.. which is why he's looking for an apartment...

and thats my little rant...
he's snoring now...it's hard not to laugh...

...I love him so much...don't they see that?